Episode 90: Achievement Won’t Carry You Through Tough Times, But This Might with Julia Baird
What actually holds you together when life blindsides you? Maybe it’s a breakup. A diagnosis. Or the crushing weight of everything right now. If you’re wired for hustle, your first instinct might be to work through it—to push harder, achieve more, be exceptional. What if the answer wasn’t in doing more, but in seeing oneself as LESS? Wait, what? Julia Baird—broadcaster, journalist, and bestselling author—gets it. She loves being hyper-productive. But when her world cracked open, she didn’t seek solace in success. Instead, she discovered the power of her shrinking self and the practice of deliberately seeking awe.
In this episode, we dive into the joys (and downsides) of hyper-productivity. We examine “the shrinking self”— and why it might be your secret weapon during tough times. We talk about the sustaining power of deep friendships, ocean swimming and dancing. You’ll also learn what Julia has recently said “ENOUGH!” to and felt better for it. You know those episodes where you take notes, read the transcript, and listen twice? This might be one of them.
Links:
Julia Baird’s books: Phosphorescence; Bright Shining: How grace changes everything.
Julia Baird’s Ted talk, The Power of Feeling Small.
Julia on Instagram.
Mandy on Instagram.
Dacher Keltner’s book, Awe
The Guardian article: Why we should stop wishing we were special – and celebrate being ordinary.